Today's the fifth day dearie is in camp.....he was on reservist since Monday....time is passing pretty slowly....still another week to go and i will only get to see him tomorrow evening and sun he will be back in camp again while i'm happily serving in church. :P

Well, sigh sigh but! I still have the joy of the Lord! heh heh heh...happily shopping without him and best of all...His credit cards are with me! heh heh heh..keke...just kidding la..i shopped with my own money la.. i'm still complaining to friends that i have no sub card from him...which usually comes with the marriage package..:P Anyways we have discussed/debated about this before and he has his reasons for not doing so...SO IT IS OK! I was quite a feminist last time, nv thought i will get married and even spend my man's money, my ambition was to be a powerpac career woman when i was young. Now my ambition is to be a tai tai...hahaha....but my dearie don't allow me to be one now, so i have to wait......

Anyways, I wanted to write about something else actually....happened to catch "Let's Shoot" on Channel 8/U...can't rem.. and the topic was abt single parent. One of the guest was this 18 yr old gal who already had a baby. I missed a part of it but she looks like those too-havoc-to-be-responsible-mummy type talking abt her experience of being a single mum and why she wants to have a child so young. If i'm not wrong she prob mentioned there are women/gal like her who felt they do not need to be married to have a child and raise them all by themselves (or to be accurate also with the help of the gal's parents) as long as they felt they have the financial criteria. Tis prob makes man felt they have become secondary in the family unit. (well, she was called "childish" by a 15 year old boy who was one of the invited guests to the talk show and happened to be from a single parent ..haha- i really think the 15 year old boy might be more sensible than her). Another single parent is in her twenties and what i can't stand is that she is still with the child's father but the child's father did not want to shoulder the responsibility of a father and refused to acknowledge the child as his own (even called the galfriend's friend to make sure his name is not in the birth cert of the child when he is borned) - and the mum felt it's his choice to not wanting to acknowledge the child and it's her choice to give birth to the baby so no conflict, can still be her galfriend...duh?! she still wants a jerk to be her boyfriend after all this.....i was wondering....God! She needs some wisdom and women's dignity!! what is the child going to address her boyfriend when he/she grows up? "Uncle?"......i prob really do not understand why some gals can be so naive? but she did mentioned the guy's family is well-off so.....i guess to me, that's prob the only reason why she is still with him...if not she is prob not normal....the thought of it just cause anger to arose and not understand why some women are so weird in their thinking.......i really wonder..........arhhhhh... angry........